Category: Healthy Momma
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Hi God, It’s Me, Crazy Solo Mama
Hi God. I’ve known you since I was little and I probably haven’t skipped a year of church since I was born, including in my adult life. I’ve read so many books about you and traveled the world and talked about you with hundreds of people to learn more about you and how others interact…
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Solo Mama: When You Are Not Trying Hard Enough
I’m just curious. Has anyone out there been involved with some type of “system” in life – justice, education, employment assistance, public assistance, mental health , child welfare, religious, medical (health) care – and are told by someone “inside” the “system” that you are just not trying hard enough? You are not trying hard enough…
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Solo Mama: Eccentric Coping
Jumping ahead in my story (without even starting from the beginning), part of my summer included learning numerous coping strategies for dealing with several mental health diagnoses. Probably the hardest hitting issue has been anxiety. Every time I go in to see my prescribing nurse, I ask her if we can’t just medicate me out…
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Solo Mama: Reconstructing Reality
I am sitting in an all-day departmental workshop focused on problem solving. The facilitator has everyone stand up in a circle and give their name, division and project update. My morning was off to a bad start. I was triggered by a text and am doing my best to manage my emotions. They go straight…
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Solo Mama: Where Do I Begin?
For anyone who has read my posts in the past…I love humor, I love telling stories about my kids and I love putting myself on front street for all bad parenting choices I make. I want to be a voice out there, speaking loudly that: It’s ok to have bad parenting moments! It’s ok to…
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Solo Mama Traveling Through Drug Purgatory: 5 Realities and Strategies
Holy wow. Who ever knew that changing prescriptions could be a living nightmare? Probably lots of people. I just never had the opportunity to hear about their experiences. They probably weren’t jumping up and down to share them with me (or anyone else). The hardest thing to deal with has been the extremely horrifying days…
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When Solo Mama Can’t Snap Out of It
“Snap out of it.” Those words haunt me. They repeat themselves over and over as I drive to work, drive home from work, drive to meetings, sit in front of my computer and try to focus, as I make dinner, clean my house, make my bed and stream a hundred positive statements about myself through…
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Solo Parenting: Putting All My Distressing Thoughts in a Container
It’s no secret I’m an advocate of therapy. When you try to experience life to the fullest, you pull in the bad and the good, and the really really bad. You don’t give up on people and you don’t give up on hope. You need a backup though, and over the years, I’ve realized that…
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Solo Parenting and 5 Secrets to Weight Loss
Just kidding. I have no secrets to weight loss. In fact, these secrets can likely lead to weight gain. Be broke enough that when you take your kids out to eat, you can’t afford a meal for yourself. Cut gluten out of your diet when you’ve made so many sandwiches for school lunches you can’t…
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Micro-moment: My class
I just finished my second session of a class I decided to take this summer at the local rec center. My teacher approached me afterwards and said she was happy to see me come back, she wasn’t sure if I would after last week. I told her this was my special hour once a week…
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